A FRIEND

You can find friends anywhere. You can have it easily with just being nice to someone or being funny. You can also lose it easily. But then finding friends that will accept you for you and will love you even if you’re not perfect, you’re really messy, stupid, hard headed, crazy, problem maker, and ugly is the hardest part. I mean it’s really hard to find that kind of friend nowadays. It’s really easy to trust someone. It’s easy to let someone know all your flaws and secrets. But then it takes a long way run to know who the real ones are, who will accept you without any buts, will never hurt you, will never say something bad about you behind your back and will just love you forever. Know what? Friendship is the best relationship here on earth. Wanna know why? There’s no break ups and no pin points. Though in times you will really going to encounter the hard times, you will argue, you will hurt the other without any intentions to do so and will not be always at each other sides but then you can easily fix that some misunderstandings you have. Whenever you need someone to lean on or a shoulder to cry on, your friends will always be there for you. When you need someone to mess up with or someone to act silly with, you can have your friends. If you want to stroll in the park or eat in a fancy restaurant, you can call your friends and they will go out with you. Friends may not always be at your side but in times that you needed them the most, they will always be there for you no matter how busy their lives are. Sometimes we took friends for granted. We sometimes forget that they exist. But do we know that they never fail to protect or just be with us. They might scold us just like our fathers do, they might tease us like an irritating sisters do, they might know every single detail like our mothers do, and you might have a bad time with them like our brothers do but they will love you as a family, they will love you without asking you to love them in return. If you have a loving, caring and understanding friend, well, maybe it’s time for you to appreciate those little things they’re doing cause you might not know when will that friend going stay with you. remember, nothings permanent. So while you still have it you must have to take good care of it and never ever let it go. Don’t let it flew away and make yourself regret something. Just always put in mind that you can have many friends but only few were real so if you have one you better take good care of that. 

pagmamahal

ang pagmamahal sa isang taong di ka kayang mahalin pabalik ay ganito. para kang kumakanta sa harap ng isang taong bingi, sumasayaw sa harap ng isang taong bulag, yumayakap sa taong patay na, magpapabango para sa taong walang pang-amoy, at naghihintay ng sagot sa isang taong pipi. sinusubukan mo paring gawin kahit alam mo naman na kahit anong gawin mo imposibleng mahalin ka rin ng taong mahal mo.

afraid

Hi! I am Rena Monique B. Calip. But my family, friends and relatives used to call me Rena, Monique, Nique, Nica, Monica or Ta. I’m 18 years of age. I am from Kiamba, Sarangani Province but right now I am living here at General Santos City. My parents were both working at Kiamba as a municipal employee.  I have 4 siblings. We’re all 5 but then again I’m not the eldest. I am the second to the last child. We’re all girls. Maybe that’s the reason why I am eager in having a boyfriend or a guy friend because I want to feel how to be loved by a guy except of course my dad. I just mean that the love of a brother. Yeah, I do have a lot of guy cousins but then again they all had their own lives now with their families. Though I had also guy cousins which are young but then I wasn’t able to be with them as always because they’re also busy with their own lives. Well, then I am going to tell my love story that was I thought will last forever and I thought that my love story was one of the fairy tales I was watching before at the television when I was a kid. But unfortunately, as what I have observed fairy tales were only seen on the televisions and can only be experience in our dreams and not in reality. I am not saying that there is no such thing as happy endings or happy ever after but I just want to say that maybe fairy tales aren’t real because I haven’t experienced it yet. Though I know one day I’d be able to meet that knight in shining armor or prince of mine but I guess there’s no such thing as fairy tales because life isn’t perfect. All of us will go through sufferings and pains but then it’s up to us how we’ll going to handle those things in a right way. And it’s up to us how we’re going to pass all of those challenges we encounter. Though in fairy tales there’s also sufferings and challenges but then it’s almost near to perfection and life isn’t going to be that way because in life you’re going to encounter a lot of things which we could say beyond our control.  Honestly, I get jealous of those old couples who still remain strong together and could keep their promises to each other that only death can separate the of them. I am really hoping that one day I am going to meet that someone whom I could depend on and could promise the words “till death do us part”. I know that I still have to wait for that someone for so long but then again I know that when I am going to meet him in the future the wait and sacrifices will be worth it. I may not have a special someone right now but in time I know he will come into my way and will stay in my life forever, if not here on earth, then maybe in heaven will do. But for now I am going to enjoy my life as an individual so that I won’t be regretting things in the near future. I know that I am still in pain right now but in due time it will disappear and I will be able to get over it and be fully okay. All I am going to do right now is to accept that there are some things or people that will just pass our lives and will leave us many lessons so that we’re going to learn and become wiser the next time around. That will leave us scars so that we can always remember that once we had loved and cared for someone and let someone enter our lives and trusting them not to hurt us.